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Post by abigail <3 on Jan 5, 2007 17:53:42 GMT -5
Hey you guys, so after a little over three months, I finally decided to break it off with my boyfriend. I feel really bad now and I don't knwo what do... I don't know why and I just can't seem to think straight. He's crushed and I know that it's my fault. I have nowhere to turn. Can anybody give me any advice to how to make me feel better? Right now I feel like I'm a a horrible person and should be shoved off a cliff.
Help?
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Post by Moonchild10 on Jan 6, 2007 21:44:29 GMT -5
*hug* Don't worry Abbie, you're not a horrible person! There comes a time in every relationship, unless it's going to last forever, that it has to end. You don't have to feel bad because you were the one who ended it. If you felt it was time for the relationship to end, chances are that it wouldn't have gone anywhere had you stayed together. I'm sorry if this doesn't help at all, because since I've never been in a relationship myself I'm just speaking theoretically. What I do know, though, is that you'll feel better about it someday. I know there are times when it feels like you'll feel terrible forever, but you won't. Eventually, things will feel better, and you'll be able to move on. You could try watching your favorite movie to make yourself feel better, or listening to a song that you can really get into. Chocolate and ice cream usually help, too, but I'm not saying to consume like six tubs of ice cream a day XD It might help to go hang out with your friends, too, because that can really take your mind off of it. Do something fun to distract yourself. And if all else fails, it might help to just have a good cry about it, with someone there to comfort you if you want. I'm sorry you feel bad, and I wish there was something else I could do to help. Curse these long distances! Here, here's some videos that I use to cheer myself up. Maybe they'll help a little: www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2-etFXvxIUwww.youtube.com/watch?v=tiLNzlW273gwww.youtube.com/watch?v=5GniWKtIeGcwww.youtube.com/watch?v=6A-3sdqYdukthis one's the best: www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVehBjdxpl0I hope you feel a million times better! Long distance hugs! |
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Post by abigail <3 on Jan 27, 2007 12:08:32 GMT -5
thank you so much! you honestly have a way with making people feel better!
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