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Post by roxanne on Aug 8, 2006 22:18:30 GMT -5
maybe you have heard the song yes? no? whatever? thing is i am exactly like the song and i'm getting tired of it. my name is really roxanne but i started selling myself to help my mom pay for bills. now my mom has money and i'm still selling myself. she doesn't need the money anymore and i fell like crap everytime i am around her. i live with my dad and he's alwayz gone. i sell myself when he's gone and i make so much money my parents are wondering where i get it from. my boyfriend hated me
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Post by JesFriendMagnet on Aug 9, 2006 12:24:03 GMT -5
Define "selling yourself."
& if you feel so much like shit, then just stop. Especially is no one is making you or expects you to.
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Post by roxanne on Aug 9, 2006 16:21:01 GMT -5
how do i define this?? guys have sex with me for money
and for some raeson i don't stop and i do feel like shit all the time. i did it to help my mom. now she doesn't need the money but guys will come up to me with money and i do it with them. and now i feel worse.
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Post by abigail <3 on Aug 16, 2006 12:54:32 GMT -5
... ummmm, this is hard subject to talk about - let me think about this then give you advice ^^ i know i can think of something xD
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Post by imaginaryworld on Aug 16, 2006 18:54:26 GMT -5
how do i define this?? guys have sex with me for money and for some raeson i don't stop and i do feel like shit all the time. i did it to help my mom. now she doesn't need the money but guys will come up to me with money and i do it with them. and now i feel worse. You gotta tell yourself that "this is wrong, and I can't do this anymore, and I won't do this anymore." And then tell them to get lost. You can start over, you can be forgiven, but only if you're truely sorry for it. There's time to change. |
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Post by Obsessive0514 on Aug 16, 2006 22:24:56 GMT -5
Have you talked to anyone about it? A professional someone? Doctor, teacher, psycologist/psychiatrist/therapist/counselor, parents, etc.? They would probably be your best bet for help. If you're too ashamed or embarrased to ask, don't be, they won't judge you. Sorry I can't be more help, but I don't know how I can. I wish you the best of luck. ^_^
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imaginaryworld
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Post by imaginaryworld on Aug 18, 2006 18:58:49 GMT -5
Me too. Make the right choice.
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Post by abigail <3 on Aug 18, 2006 20:05:53 GMT -5
yeah, i think you should talk to a trusted adult or a friend and i know they'll have advice for you - i agree with Obsessive0514 ^^
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Post by JesFriendMagnet on Aug 20, 2006 19:09:54 GMT -5
"Selling yourself" could mean another thing in the town I'm from. I'm not going to explain, but the kids round here use the term to refer to something else. So I wasn't sure..
Whatever. First, ask yourself why you continue to do it if it makes you unhappy and you don't need to? Tell yourself you don't have to do it for anyone. Remind yourself you feel horrible afterwards.
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Post by Blue Lantern on Aug 24, 2006 21:44:31 GMT -5
Have you talked to anyone about it? A professional someone? Doctor, teacher, psycologist/psychiatrist/therapist/counselor, parents, etc.? They would probably be your best bet for help. If you're too ashamed or embarrased to ask, don't be, they won't judge you. Sorry I can't be more help, but I don't know how I can. I wish you the best of luck. ^_^ I must agree. However much we wish to be able to help you in this matter, we are not professionals. Aside from that, this is a little out of my realm of knowledge, so best of luck, and remember we're here for you. |
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Post by Moonchild10 on Oct 20, 2006 22:54:58 GMT -5
I agree with everyone so far...
But this really is hard to talk about, isn't it?
If you feel bad for doing it, then force yourself to stop. Don't think about how it will make anyone else feel bad if you don't do it, or what you've done in the past, or what the guys will think of you. Just flat out say no, and walk away before they have a chance to argue.
I know it's probably going to be hard... I guess quitting anything you've become used to is hard. But if you really want to stop, I'm sure you'll be able to do it. Don't expect it to come easy, just believe that you'll make it through it in the end.
Like Obsessive said... talk to someone about it. Anyone that you think could help. It could be anyone.
Don't cling to the past, just keep moving on toward the future.
Remember, we're all here for you if you need to talk about it.
I hope it all works out alright.
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